Well... this is a tough one for me... - Page 2

Deanna · Jun 22, 2010, 10:48 am

Will keep you all in my prayers!

Bachflock · Jun 22, 2010, 8:08 pm

Continued thanks for the kind words. Yes, I know I need to reachout to someone. I just need to do it.

Yesterday was a rough day. We had made the decision to adapt out or dog, best dog I'd ever owned but she wasn't getting walked and was locked up for hours, and I mean HOURS, at a time. Sweetest dog. Submissive, never barked, etc. My kids and I drove her to the local Humane Society (after calling them) knowing they would help her find the right home. Sucks. My 11 yo wept which inturn made me cry so we stood there in the parking lot... etc. You get the picture. My poor 9 yo was beside himself, being the young "man" he is. That poor pup will get snapped up quick and I'm glad for it. She needs a family that can spend time with her.

Then I came home and started to go over finances only to realize we're upside down. Not dangerously but enough its going to take some work to get righted again. I am a money worrier... anyone else relate? LOL

So, I do appreciate the continued prayers and encouragement. It does help...

Bachflock · Jul 8, 2010, 1:28 pm

...update...

Had another good talk yesterday. Good in the context we're communicating and honesty seems to be there. None the less she's all but made up her mind... and it is to end the marriage. There is a thread of hope in that her mind isn't completely made up but I sense its one of those things, when you've got a major decision to make, you know the answer but just need to let it settle a little before knowing your mind is made up.

Please continue to keep us in your prayers. Thanks again...

Bachflock · Jul 13, 2010, 7:57 am

Short update -

she told me last night she's certain on divorce. So, time to start getting paperwork together. She also said she's moving out as son as she can get into an apartment she owns.

I appreciate the continued prayers...

tom.c · Jul 13, 2010, 10:26 am

got ya covered here vance.

beastybird · Jul 13, 2010, 9:45 pm

Hang in there Vance

MisterNatural · Jul 31, 2010, 12:57 pm

I just read this and hope things work out for the best Vance.

Jun 22, 2010, 10:48 am	#11
Deanna Family member Name: Deanna Central, Michigan USA Join Date: Feb 8, 2003	Re: Well... this is a tough one for me... Will keep you all in my prayers!

Jun 22, 2010, 8:08 pm	#12
Bachflock Full Member Name: Vance Northern, Michigan USA Traverse City Join Date: Sep 7, 2007	Re: Well... this is a tough one for me... Continued thanks for the kind words. Yes, I know I need to reachout to someone. I just need to do it. Yesterday was a rough day. We had made the decision to adapt out or dog, best dog I'd ever owned but she wasn't getting walked and was locked up for hours, and I mean HOURS, at a time. Sweetest dog. Submissive, never barked, etc. My kids and I drove her to the local Humane Society (after calling them) knowing they would help her find the right home. Sucks. My 11 yo wept which inturn made me cry so we stood there in the parking lot... etc. You get the picture. My poor 9 yo was beside himself, being the young "man" he is. That poor pup will get snapped up quick and I'm glad for it. She needs a family that can spend time with her. Then I came home and started to go over finances only to realize we're upside down. Not dangerously but enough its going to take some work to get righted again. I am a money worrier... anyone else relate? LOL So, I do appreciate the continued prayers and encouragement. It does help... __________________ vjs The best lessons are those learned before you wish you had known better, especially when thinking edible mushrooms.

Jul 8, 2010, 1:28 pm	#13
Bachflock Full Member Name: Vance Northern, Michigan USA Traverse City Join Date: Sep 7, 2007	Re: Well... this is a tough one for me... ...update... Had another good talk yesterday. Good in the context we're communicating and honesty seems to be there. None the less she's all but made up her mind... and it is to end the marriage. There is a thread of hope in that her mind isn't completely made up but I sense its one of those things, when you've got a major decision to make, you know the answer but just need to let it settle a little before knowing your mind is made up. Please continue to keep us in your prayers. Thanks again... __________________ vjs The best lessons are those learned before you wish you had known better, especially when thinking edible mushrooms.

Jul 13, 2010, 7:57 am	#14
Bachflock Full Member Name: Vance Northern, Michigan USA Traverse City Join Date: Sep 7, 2007	Re: Well... this is a tough one for me... Short update - she told me last night she's certain on divorce. So, time to start getting paperwork together. She also said she's moving out as son as she can get into an apartment she owns. I appreciate the continued prayers... __________________ vjs The best lessons are those learned before you wish you had known better, especially when thinking edible mushrooms.

Jul 13, 2010, 10:26 am	#15
tom.c Enhanced Membership Name: tom Southern, Ohio usa Join Date: May 8, 2005	Re: Well... this is a tough one for me... got ya covered here vance.

Jul 13, 2010, 9:45 pm	#16
beastybird Full Member Name: Mary Southern, Wisconsin usa milwaukee Join Date: Mar 4, 2006	Re: Well... this is a tough one for me... Hang in there Vance

Jul 31, 2010, 12:57 pm	#17
MisterNatural Full Member Name: Roosevelt Southern, Michigan USA Join Date: Jul 31, 2010	Re: Well... this is a tough one for me... I just read this and hope things work out for the best Vance.

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